A Day In The Life Of A Betrayed Spouse: Healthy

A Day In The Life Of A Betrayed Spouse: Healthy

by Heather Kolb November 29, 2018 1 Comment

After my husband works on his group homework, we take time to snuggle on the couch and watch a show. I love this time with him. It hasn’t always been this way. We are learning how to be in relationship—open, honest, and vulnerable—one day at a time.

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A Day In The Life Of A Betrayed Spouse: Unhealthy

A Day In The Life Of A Betrayed Spouse: Unhealthy

by Heather Kolb November 15, 2018 3 Comments

He’s finally awake. How can he sleep so well after everything he’s done? He’s in the shower. What excuse could I make to go into the bathroom to make sure he’s only showering and not masturbating? I should make sure his coffee is ready, so he doesn’t have to stop for coffee on the way to work. So many young girls work at the coffee stand. I don’t want him to be tempted.

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Is Porn Adultery?

Is Porn Adultery?

by Nick Stumbo October 11, 2018 1 Comment

The topic of lust and pornography is never easy to navigate in a marriage relationship. But for those couples who are willing to face the struggle openly and honestly, the journey is truly life-changing.

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How We Finally Won the Battle Against Pornography

How We Finally Won the Battle Against Pornography

by Michelle Stumbo September 13, 2018 1 Comment

In front of the entire student body, a friend confessed his addiction and shared that Jesus had "set him free." I was engaged at the time and thought how glad I was that my future husband didn't struggle with porn.

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Honestly Speaking

Honestly Speaking

by Nick Stumbo August 30, 2018

While both honesty and full-disclosure can be a very difficult process, they are well worth it. Not only do we expose our secrets and learn to be a truth-teller, we also find new levels of intimacy and growth in our relationship.

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5 Ways to Regain Trust in Recovery

5 Ways to Regain Trust in Recovery

by Ernie Chambers March 01, 2018

For many men who are beginning their healing process, the road to recovery can be difficult to navigate. There are so many things to work on, it can be challenging to prioritize what to work on and when.

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Timing is Everything

Timing is Everything

by Debby Flanagan September 28, 2017 2 Comments

It happens when you least expect it. You are walking along and wham! You are on the ground, in shock, wondering what just happened. You may have received unexpected news, or a diagnoses, or discovered a betrayal that will forever change your life. It is moments like these—circumstances of pain and trauma—that stick with you long after the event occurred.

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