Most of the messages I have read or heard in church that touch on the topic of pornography follow a pattern like this: “Men, God has a wonderful plan for your sexuality. His plan is good and beautiful. Pornography cheapens His plan and objectifies women. See how good His plan is and how valuable women are? You don’t need pornography in your life, so get rid of it. Choose Jesus and His plan instead of pornography.” End of message. Everything in that message is true, but it produces shame on several levels.