Episode 005 - Double Bind & Commitment to Change

August 08, 2017 1 Comment


We talk to Robert Vander Meer about the ins-and-outs of the Double Bind and Commitment to Change tools. Robert is a pastor and is also one of our Pastoral Sex Addiction Professionals. We talk through what the confusion is surrounding the Double Bind, and also discuss the keys to an effective Commitment to Change. Robert gives us his experience both as a former sex addict and now as a pastor and counselor.

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Terry  Smith
Terry Smith

February 28, 2018

Link from the “What’s New at Pure Desire” apparently is broken or pointed to the wrong place.

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