Facing Your Fantasies w/ Drew Boa

Episode 142 March 24, 2020


  1. Kyle Koop

    I like the openness and honesty of Drew! Something that helped me with doing my arousal template was remembering, “I’m not a pervert, I’m wounded!”

  2. Drew Boa

    Thanks Kyle! Yes. You are not a pervert. You are a beloved son of the most high king. And your desires are evidence that there is something RIGHT with you that the enemy has twisted because he sees your value and wants to destroy you.

  3. Danielle

    Drew, thank you so much for your honesty. My husband has struggled with an unwanted sexual fetish since he was a preteen and I’ve never heard a Christian speak about it as openly and graciously as you have.

    Frankly, I’ve never heard ANY Christian sources address fetishes or unusual sexual fantasies. We always thought he was an anomaly. We could never find advice for how to deal with his unique issue. He used to say, “I almost wish I struggled with ‘just porn’ because there’s lots of advice for how to fix that, but nothing on how to stop being attracted to a fetish.” Your testimony gives me hope that he could get past this by doing the work of pressing into the LORD and dealing his family of origin wounds, too!

    Drew, do you recommend any other podcasts, websites, or books that help with fetishes? Were there any specific resources that helped you with your fetish? We already have Jay Stringer’s “Unwanted” book, and my husband is currently in a “7 Pillars” group and is getting counselling from a Pure Desire coach. I’m also dealing with the fallout from his issues in my life in a “Betrayal and Beyond” group. Any direction would be appreciated! Thanks again!

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