When sexual addiction enters our marriage, it often feels as if it came out of nowhere. Betrayal trauma hits us like a high-speed train, laying us flat. But do we need to stay flat on the ground? We don’t believe so. We can start to get back up with tools like the Recovery Action Plan. Today, we talk about how this tool helps create safety and puts a process in place to establish boundaries and consequences to bring about restoration in relationships.
This series has been pretty good, but, personally, I’d really like to see the betrayal series include maybe more women than men in terms of the speaker’s. Not very many podcasts are directed towards the spouse, and it’s be nice to hear a panel of the wonderful PD ladies leading the discussions.
Great podcast! I do have a question though. My husband and I have been in recovery for 3 years now, and I’ve noticed over time, my spouse hasn’t been following through on his Recovery Action Plan. He will disclose relapses, but I don’t see any of the follow through with consequences or action steps like filling out a faster scale daily and sharing it. We even completed our plan together and was both on the same page. Do you have any suggestions on how to approach a situation like this? It is something I am seeing often with other couples as well.
This series has been pretty good, but, personally, I’d really like to see the betrayal series include maybe more women than men in terms of the speaker’s. Not very many podcasts are directed towards the spouse, and it’s be nice to hear a panel of the wonderful PD ladies leading the discussions.
Great podcast! I do have a question though. My husband and I have been in recovery for 3 years now, and I’ve noticed over time, my spouse hasn’t been following through on his Recovery Action Plan. He will disclose relapses, but I don’t see any of the follow through with consequences or action steps like filling out a faster scale daily and sharing it. We even completed our plan together and was both on the same page. Do you have any suggestions on how to approach a situation like this? It is something I am seeing often with other couples as well.
I re-listened and heard this is addressed. Somehow I missed it!