SEP 16-17, 2022 • In Person, Online, or at a Host Site

Pure Desire Summit 2022: All In

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Recovery Happens Best

...when you're all in.

When you first started this healing process, you likely thought, “Give me the book, show me how to use the tools, and I’ll be healed in no time!” And like many others, you soon realized that this process was more in-depth and would take longer than you initially planned.

Like you, men and women from all walks of life have entered this process motivated by hope: the hope of living free from the effects of sexual brokenness. It’s this same hope that inspires resiliency, persevering through obstacles and setbacks, keeping you steadfast on your journey.

Commitment is key to recovery and healing. It takes time and intention. This is a journey that will require more of you—and return more to you—than you ever expected. When you make a commitment and bring your whole self into the healing process, God will do an amazing work in your life!

For more than 30 years, Pure Desire has helped men and women around the world break free from sexual brokenness, heal the trauma of betrayal, and live a life beyond their expectations.

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Go all in with sexual health experts

Experience compelling teaching and engaging sessions that will catapult your healing to the next level!

Our speakers examine and bring to life the following topics and areas of expertise:

Keynote Sessions

jay stringer

Jay Stringer

juli slattery

Juli Slattery

nick stumbo

Nick Stumbo

ashley jameson

Ashley Jameson

robert vander meer

Robert Vander Meer

Motives Matter

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

When it comes to recovery, our motives play a huge role in either bringing us more life, or draining it away. Healing and recovery can be hard work, and so we must have a crystal clear focus on our “why.” If we lose track of this, recovery can quickly become just another humanistic self-help routine. But as we come to a deeper understanding of who we are in Christ and His heart for us, we gain the motivation we need to be ALL IN.

Learn how to incorporate a healthy view of God and faith into the recovery process. Escape from “trying harder,” performance-based living and rest instead in the all-encompassing Love of God!

Just as Christ revolutionized how we know God, we need to bring this revolutionary approach into recovery. Changed behavior is an outcome of relationship, not a prerequisite for it.

Nick Stumbo

Nick Stumbo

When Failure Sets Us Free

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

Too many people go through recovery attempting to quarantine behavior rather than seeing their brokenness as a roadmap to reclaiming desire. Understanding it is not a barrier, but a bridge to knowing the heart of God.

Jay’s session will explore the neurobiology of shame, how to outgrow unwanted behaviors, and what it means to desire again.

The stories of your deepest shame are not a barrier, but a bridge to going ALL IN on the life you desire.

Jay Stringer

Jay Stringer

Embracing a Metamorphic Life

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

Faith and recovery require us to examine how we see the world. Because of this, deconstruction and reconstruction are an inherent part of the healing process.

Join Robert as he invites you into a healthy, organic, thought process that has historically been viewed as unhealthy or even taboo.

You will learn how faith and recovery are interwoven, that deconstruction is a healthy response to a new paradigm, and reconstruction is about our unique identity in the context of relationship.

Rober Vander Meer

Robert Vander Meer

Why God Cares About Your Sex Life

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

Most people have a difficult time combining the words “God” and “sex” in the same sentence. Yet, God created us as sexual people and cares deeply about our wounds, sexual shame, and sexual choices. Do you want to understand why?

Join Juli as she addresses the “why” behind God’s heart for sexual healing and redemption.

This session will help you identify your “sexual narrative” and will give a deeper understanding of the biblical narrative of sexuality and sexual wholeness.

Juli Slattery

Juli Slattery

Pursuing Sexual Integrity (Not Simply Purity)

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

There is a lot of backlash toward “purity culture” today. Perhaps a better way to understand a godly pursuit of sexuality is the concept of sexual integrity.

Integrity goes far deeper than our behaviors and gets to the heart of what matters most to us.

In this session, Juli will address aspects of sexual integrity including the link to identity, stewarding sexual desires, and addressing your wounds and shame.

Juli Slattery

Juli Slattery

ALL IN: When We Need Healing AND Recovery

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

Recovering from addiction and healing from betrayal is complex and sometimes overlapping.

Join Ashley as she shares her experience of navigating her husband’s betrayal while struggling with her own addictions. You will learn practical strategies and tools to help you engage in healing and recovery simultaneously.

Your betrayal is not less painful or important because you have your own struggles, too. You're worth going ALL IN for—you can experience freedom from betrayal and addiction.

Don’t allow fear and shame to keep you from living the life God has for you.

Ashley Jameson

Ashley Jameson

Breakout Sessions

Attendees streaming the Summit will see a select four breakout sessions. In-person attendees can choose their four breakout sessions. All breakout sessions will be available as a replay for virtual attendees, in-person attendees, host site attendees, and watch party hosts.

We’re ALL IN: Executive Director’s Update and the Future of Pure Desire

Availability: In-person

As Pure Desire continues to grow and develop, we want to keep you informed about what's happening around the ministry.

Come and hear updates from our Executive Director, Nick Stumbo, about highlights from the past year, upcoming plans, and the future of the ministry. There will also be time for an open Q&A.

Learn how you can be personally involved—and get your church more involved—in moving the mission forward to help more men and women in the church and around the world.

Nick Stumbo

Nick Stumbo

Staying ALL IN When Group Gets Tough

Availability: In-person Replay

For group leaders and members alike, there can be a variety of challenges, difficult lessons, and unhealthy core beliefs that drive harmful group dynamics.

In this session, you’ll discover the core beliefs that drive unhealthy group dynamics and the practical ways to address them, transforming your group experience.

Learn how to cultivate trust—trusting God, group members, and the recovery process—while navigating difficult seasons or situations in group.

Matt Bye

Matt Bye

Living An All In Marriage: Integrating Our Stories

Availability: In-person Replay

Have you ever wondered what it would look like to take your individual story and integrate it into “our” story?

In this session, you’ll develop a personalized plan designed to support and foster a deeper sense of having an ALL IN marriage.

Tyler and Shari Chinchen

Tyler & Shari Chinchen

When Being ALL IN Makes You Want to Get Out: Sustaining Leadership When You Feel Burnt Out

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

What does it mean to be ALL IN? Today, so many church leaders are experiencing burn out. Could it be that we are operating on a faulty premise of what it means to be ALL IN? Life is difficult, challenging, and at times, overwhelming. But Jesus said, “His yoke is easy and his burden is light.”

If being ALL IN for the cause of Christ leads us to burn out, maybe we’re going about it the wrong way.

This session will present a paradigm shift in what it means to follow Jesus and be ALL IN. You will learn it’s okay to let go of things that aren’t working, how to embrace our humanity as Jesus did His, and find enjoyment in leading yourself and others well.

Bring your questions and join the conversation.

Rodney Wright

Rodney Wright

Staying ALL IN After Year One

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

How do we stay engaged and committed after the first year of recovery? It's easy to get sloppy or lazy after we've experienced some healing. So how do we maintain momentum once the crisis and difficulty dies down?

Recovery and healing has many chapters which require different approaches. This session will challenge you to stop focusing on avoiding behaviors and develop healthy habits you can do in place of your old unwanted behaviors.

When it comes to recovery and healing, you have to be ALL IN for the long haul.

Trevor Winsor

Trevor Winsor

Managing Life's Transitions

Availability: In-person Replay

Transitions in life are sometimes exciting, but most are difficult because they require risk and an adventure into the unknown. This is especially true for those who have chosen to embark on a healing journey through Pure Desire.

In this session, we will look at the problems and possibilities that occur in most life-changing experiences and how to best manage the transitions we all face. You will come away with “How Tos” in making the most of change as you navigate transitions.

Diane Roberts

Diane Roberts

Going ALL IN on My Recovery: Women Struggle, Too!

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

Although it was once thought as only a man’s issue, today it is well recognized that women also struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors. But in this arena, what makes women’s behaviors unique?

Join Heather and Anna as they discuss common characteristics among women who struggle, the factors that drive their unwanted behaviors, and practical solutions for recovery.

Understanding the multifaceted aspects of sexual brokenness and what this looks like for women who struggle is key to going ALL IN on recovery and experiencing healing.

Heather Kolb

Heather Kolb

Anna Philipsen

Anna Philipsen

The Four Pillars of Sexual Love

Availability: In-person Host Site Livestream Replay

The Bible tells us that marriage, including the sexual union between a husband and wife, reflects God’s love for His covenant people. This sounds spiritual but may not seem practically helpful.

Join Juli Slattery as she shares four specific elements of God’s love that paint the picture for what it looks like to honor God and each other in your sexual relationship.

Juli Slattery

Juli Slattery

Staying ALL IN With Your Adult Children

Availability: In-person Replay

We want to be there for our kids into adulthood but it's not always easy. Whether our adult children are going through addiction and betrayal trauma or we are in the midst of it ourselves, we need to understand how to handle this relationship.

How do we support our adult children while not being overbearing? How do we disclose our addiction to our adult children and navigate through recovery and healing together? As family of origin issues begin to emerge, how do we look at these with an open mind?

Walking through these situations can be extremely difficult but can also create a tremendous break-through if done well. It's not too late to deepen your relationship with your adult children and address the threat addiction brought to your family.

Join Bill & Eileen as they talk through these very real and common challenges many of us face today.

Bill and Eileen Fagan

Bill & Eileen Fagan

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What To Expect

Go all in online, in person, or at a Host Site!

Starting Friday, September 16, 2022, join hundreds of wholeheartedly committed men and women for the Pure Desire Summit!

You can join us in person, online, or at a Host Site.

In Person Experience
Host Site Experience

In-Person Location:
Harvest Christian Church
624 SW Halsey St.
Troutdale, OR 97060
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Having an ALL IN attitude creates a powerful foundation for growth and change. It will transform your life, strengthen your relationships, and ignite your passion for lasting health.


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Attend in person, online, or at a Host Site, September 16-17, 2022!

For the lowest attendance cost, register today!

We would love to see you in person, online, or at a Host Site for the Pure Desire Summit! If you can make it in person at the main site, we’re excited for you to hang out with the Pure Desire staff, meet our keynote speakers, and even meet up with other group members. If you will be joining at a host site, you will have the opportunity to connect with others while you learn alongside them in the sessions. Online attendees have the flexibility to watch on their own or with a friend from the comfort of their own home.

In Person Experience

In-Person admission also includes Online admission. The video link will be active on Friday, September 16, 2022, at 8:00 a.m. PDT. Access to the sessions will be available through October 31, 2022.

Online Experience

Attend the Pure Desire Summit from the comfort of your own home. The video link for the summit will be active on Friday, September 16, 2022, at 8:00 a.m. PDT. Access to the sessions will be available through October 31, 2022.

Host Site Experience

Host Site admission also includes online admission. The video link will be active on Friday, September 16, 2022 at 8:00 a.m. PDT. Access to the sessions will be available through October 31, 2022.

Friends & Family Discount: Bring a friend, your spouse, or your high school child and get a discount when you register together! When two PD Summit 2022 In-Person or Host Site Experience tickets are purchased together in one transaction, an automatic $40 discount is deducted at check-out. This discount will not apply to the Online Experience.

*The attendee price will increase by $20 two weeks before the event on September 1, 2022. The last day to get early bird pricing is August 17, 2022.

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You can attend the Pure Desire Summit In-Person, Online, at a Host Site, or a Watch Party! The schedule varies slightly between in-person and streamed experiences so please be aware of the listed times while you are making plans. Please note that these are in Pacific Time.

In-Person at Harvest Christian Church in Troutdale, Oregon

Friday: 10:00 am - 5:30 pm PDT
Saturday: 9:00 am - 4:45 pm PDT

Online and Watch Party*

Friday: 10:25 am - 5:30 pm PDT
Saturday: 9:25 am - 4:45 pm PDT

Host Site

Friday: 1:15 pm - 8:50 pm EDT
Saturday: 12:15 pm - 8:05 pm EDT

Download the Schedule*

*All times listed in PDT. Additional breakouts will be available as a replay.

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Travel Arrangements

In Person Experience
Host Site Experience

For those of you traveling to Oregon, we welcome you to the Portland area and hope to help make your trip a little easier. Here are some helpful details:

Airport: Portland International Airport (PDX)

Ground Transportation: You can rent a car at PDX or take The Sheraton shuttle to the hotel.

Hotel: Sheraton Portland Airport Hotel, 8235 NE Airport Way, Portland, OR 97220.

We have locked in a group rate for all of our out of town guests at the Sheraton Portland Airport Hotel. The group rate is $159/night, plus taxes and fees. This rate is available for any dates between September 15-19. Click here to reserve your room at our group rate. The last day to reserve your room is Thursday, August 25, 2022. Both Single King and Double Queen rooms are available.

In addition to shuttle transportation to and from the airport, The Sheraton also offers complimentary shuttles to Cascade Station, where you will find a selection of shopping and dining options.

Event Location: The Pure Desire Summit is a quick 20 minute drive from The Sheraton.

Directions from Sheraton Portland Airport Hotel to Harvest Christian Church.

We also have rooms available in a group block at the Courtyard Portland East for $159 a night. This rate includes complimentary internet but there is a daily parking fee. This is about a 10 minute drive from the PD Summit taking place at Harvest Christian Church. Rooms are available for the dates September 15-18 and the last day to book is Thursday, August 25.

Directions from Courtyard Portland East to Harvest Christian Church

For those traveling to New Holland, Pennsylvania for the Host Site Experience at Petra Church, you will be warmly welcomed by the Petra team! Here are a few helpful travel details:


  • Lancaster Airport (LNS) - 15 miles
  • Harrisburg International Airport (MDT) - 49 miles
  • Philadelphia International Airport (PHL) - 57 miles

Event Location: Petra Church, 565 Airport Rd, New Holland, PA 17557

Questions: PD Summit Event Manager at Petra Church, Suelda Hurst, [email protected]

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When you're all in, it equips you help others

Past Summit attendees have said:

Great conference and I loved the online experience. You did a great job by having that available to everyone. I originally signed up to attend in person, but at the last minute I had some family needs that came up and I ended up attending online without even skipping a beat. I hope to attend in person next year!

It’s been amazing and so helpful!!

The entire line up and topic list was stellar. I invited two struggling couples to watch with my wife and I, and hearing so much validation about betrayal trauma was exactly what all four of them needed to hear. I know they are moving forward in their healing with a better understanding of the wounds they each carry.

The sessions were each so captivating that the time flew by!

Thank you so much to all the speakers who did a tremendous job restating the questions for those of us online. The whole summit was amazing. Thank you!

This was overall a fantastic experience.

We were so thankful to meet in person. Really enjoyed the whole summit. It was a nice touch to have the snacks in between to keep us going. Thank you for everything!

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