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Lives and relationships are being destroyed by unwanted sexual behavior. At Pure Desire, we offer clinical counseling so that you can break free, heal relationships, and live in sexual health.

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    I’m Struggling with unwanted sexual behavior

    The Pure Desire Counseling program works to bring recovery and restoration from sexual addiction and intimacy disorders within the Christian community. Clients will learn to develop sexual, emotional, relational, and spiritual health through the 12-month counseling program.

    $655

    for evaluation only

    Evaluation Details

    Prior to being recommended for the Individual 12-Month Clinical Counseling program, clients will complete an evaluation which includes the following:

      3 online assessments:
    • Sexual Dependency Inventory - Revised 4.0 (SDI-R)
    • Post Traumatic Stress Index—Revised (PTSI-R)
    • Taylor-Johnson Temperament Analysis (T-JTA)
    • 2-hour evaluation session with clinician

    Evaluation Cost: $655 (3 assessments w/ 2-hour session)

    Program Details

    The Individual 12-Month Clinical Counseling program requires:

    • A 12-month commitment to the program
    • Two 1.5-hour sessions per month
    • Participation in a Pure Desire group
    • Commitment to weekly assigned work
    • Program Cost:
    • Session Fee: $283.50/session (12-month total: $6,804)
    • Counseling Resources: $100-$300

    I Need Support for healing from betrayal

    The Spouse Support Counseling program offers a safe space to heal from the trauma of betrayal, establish healthy boundaries, and explore the depths of forgiveness. A Pure Desire clinician will work with you to create a personalized course of care that will meet you where you are at.

    $422.50

    for evaluation only

    Evaluation Details

    Prior to being recommended for the Spouse Support Counseling program, clients will complete an evaluation which includes the following:

      3 online assessments: ]
    • Inventory for Partner Attachment, Stress, & Trauma (IPAST)
    • Post Traumatic Stress Index—Revised (PTSI-R)
    • Taylor-Johnson Temperament Analysis (T-JTA)
    • 1.5-hour evaluation session with clinician

    Evaluation Cost: $422.50 (3 assessments w/ 1.5-hour session)

    Program Details

    The Pure Desire Spouse Support Counseling Program requires:

    • A 10-month commitment to the program
    • Two 1.5-hour sessions per month
    • Participation in a Pure Desire group
    • Commitment to weekly assigned work
    • Program Cost:
    • Session Fee: $283.50/session (10-month total: $5,670)
    • Counseling Resources: $100-$300
    Please select your program.
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    Couples 12-Month Clinical Counseling

    The Pure Desire Counseling Program works to bring recovery and restoration from sexual addiction and intimacy disorders within the Christian community. Clients will learn to develop sexual, emotional, relational, and spiritual health through the 12-month counseling program. An experienced male/female clinician team will meet with a couple so that both spouses receive the support they need.

    $772.50

    for evaluation only

    Evaluation Details

    Prior to being recommended for the Couples 12-Month Clinical Counseling program, clients will complete an evaluation which includes the following:

      3 online assessments for Struggling Spouse:<
    • Sexual Dependency Inventory—Revised 4.0 (SDI-R)
    • Post Traumatic Stress Index—Revised (PTSI-R)
    • Taylor-Johnson Temperament Analysis (T-JTA)
      3 online assessments for Betrayed Spouse:
    • Post Traumatic Stress Index—Revised (PTSI-R)
    • Taylor-Johnson Temperament Analysis (T-JTA)
    • Inventory for Partner Attachment, Stress, & Trauma - Revised 2.0 (IPAST)
    • 2-hour evaluation session for couple to meet together with male/female clinician team

    Evaluation Cost: $772.50 (6 assessments w/ 2-hour session)

    Program Details

    The Pure Desire Counseling Program requires:

    • A 12-month commitment to the program
    • Two 1.5-hour sessions per month
    • Clinician-led full disclosure process
    • Participation in a Pure Desire group
    • Commitment to weekly assigned work
    • Program Cost:
    • Session Fee: $429/session (12-month total: $10,296)
      Additional Costs:
    • Counseling Resources: $100-$300
    • Polygraph (if requested) - cost varies

    Full Disclosure Program

    The Full Disclosure Program includes six, 90-minute sessions over a 3-4 month period. This program is for couples who are near completion in PD groups and have made progress together in their healing. An experienced male/female clinician team will prepare the couple for each step of the disclosure process and will help them create a trajectory for restoration and healing.

    $625

    for evaluations and 1.5 hour session

    Admission Prerequisites

    • Completion or near completion of PD group work (Seven Pillars and Betrayal & Beyond)
    • Sobriety from acting out for a minimum of 90 days
    • Recovery support people are available - PD support group members preferred
    • A desire to continue healing in the relationship Please note: If one or both parties are considering separation or divorce, Pure Desire recommends that you seek legal counsel and not engage in this full disclosure/polygraph exam work.
    Evaluation Details

    Prior to being recommended for the Full Disclosure Program, clients will complete an evaluation which includes the following:

      2 online assessments for each spouse:
    • Post Traumatic Stress Index—Revised (PTSI-R)
    • Taylor-Johnson Temperament Analysis (T-JTA)
    • 1.5-hour evaluation session for couple to meet together with male/female clinician team

    Evaluation Cost: $625 (2 assessments - prior to sessions with clinicians)

    Program Details

    The disclosure process would include these steps:

    • Creating 3-4 questions for a polygraph test
    • Writing Full Disclosure Letter
    • Disclosure session (following polygraph)
    • Sharing Emotional Impact Letter
    • Sharing Emotional Restitution Letter
    • Program Cost:
    • Session Fee: $429/session (total after evaluation session: $2,145)
      Additional Costs:
    • Counseling Resources: $100-$300
    • Polygraph - cost varies
    Please select your program.
  • Admission Prerequisites

    I have read the Admission Prerequisites for the Full Disclosure Program and I understand that I must have all prerequisites in place prior to beginning the evaluation process or I may be redirected or referred out.

    Recommended Course of Care

    I understand that the Pure Desire clinician will create a personalized Recommended Course of Care and that their recommendation may vary from the program that I have selected.

  • Today's Cost

    I understand that my payment today is covering the initial evaluation process for counseling and that there will be additional costs associated with the program if I decide to move forward with the Recommended Course of Care.