Lives and relationships are being destroyed by the effects of unwanted sexual behavior

Shame keeps us silent

Feeling powerless keeps us stuck

Hopelessness sets in

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You are not alone.

Like you, we once felt powerless too.

But now we’re living in hope, healing, and freedom.

And we’ve shared this healing with hundreds of thousands of men and women around the world.

  • IITAP Certified
  • 30+ years developing resources for men and women that work
  • A proven process of healing from unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma
  • Decades of pastoral training and leadership
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The Pure Desire Path

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Select Your Group.

2

Join Your Group.

3

Start Your Healing.

What We Do

At Pure Desire, we know you want to be sexually healthy. In order to do this, you need healing from the effects of unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma. The problem is you are stuck in a pattern which makes you feel powerless. We believe you were designed to live a life without sexual brokenness or betrayal trauma and the effects they can have on your future. Like you, we once felt powerless, but have found freedom and healing. We now have shared this healing with hundreds of thousands of men and women around the world.

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Here’s how you do it: 1. Select your group; 2. Join your group; 3. Start your healing.

So, join your group. And in the meantime, here are two FREE eBooks: 5 Steps To Porn-Free Living and 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma. Learn how you can stop feeling shame, isolated, and broken in your relationships; and instead, break free, heal your relationships, and feel confident as the real you.

Groups

A safe place to follow the roadmap to healing from unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma

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Counseling

Trusted and certified clinicians to walk you through the healing journey

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Events

Educating and training to heal men, women, families, and churches

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Betrayal Groups

Pure Desire Betrayal Groups help you:

  • Make sense of how betrayal trauma is impacting you
  • Find your voice and establish healthy boundaries
  • Heal from the trauma of sexual betrayal
  • Learn tools and strategies needed for sustainable health and healing

Details:

  • 8-10 month groups
  • Offered locally or online
  • Meets weekly with a group of 4-7 on the same journey of healing
  • Process through Betrayal & Beyond for women or Hope For Men for men
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Recovery Groups

Pure Desire Recovery Groups help you:

  • Discover the “why” of unwanted sexual behavior
  • Makes sense of your story and the contributing factors to sexual brokenness
  • Create and maintain sobriety
  • Learn tools and strategies needed for sustainable health and healing

Details:

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